What is a deacon in the Catholic Church?

  1. What is the difference between a permanent deacon and a transitional deacon?
  2. What does a deacon actually do?
  3. How do I address a Deacon?

So if you’ve ever wondered the above — or weren’t even aware there’s such a thing as a permanent deacon or a transitional deacon — you’re not alone. Here is an explainer on the diaconate, a crucial but often overlooked facet of the Catholic Sacrament of Holy Orders.

First, an important distinction: What’s the difference between a transitional and permanent deacon?

Like many things in the Church, this is a question with both a simple answer and a more nuanced answer.

The simple answer: a transitional deacon is a man who’s on his way to be ordained to the priesthood. As a seminarian, he typically is ordained a deacon a year prior to being ordained to the priesthood.

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Permanent deacons often have secular jobs and are allowed to be married.

By contrast, a permanent deacon is a man who is not being formed for the priesthood but to be ordained a deacon permanently. Married men may become permanent deacons and have families; they often work in a secular job in addition to their diaconal role.

But it raises another question with a more nuanced answer.

Why even have transitional deacons?

What’s the point?

If a man is making his way toward the priesthood, why must he be ordained a deacon first?

To answer this, we have to understand a little bit about the sacrament of Holy Orders, which has three degrees (think kind of like ranks in the army or titles at your place of business): the diaconate, the priesthood, and the episcopacy.

Although each degree’s role and function has developed over time, all three have been present since the earliest days of the Church.

Bishops have been tasked with sanctifying, governing and teaching; they’re considered to have the “fullness” of holy orders. The priests participate in the bishops’ ministry of ruling and teaching and sanctifying. Both bishops and priests serve in persona Christi capitis, or in the person of Christ, the head.

Deacons, on the other hand, participate in their local bishop’s ministry, but they don’t serve as Christ the head. They serve in persona Christi servi, which means Christ the servant.

During the Second Vatican Council, the Church Council Fathers recognized the need for new ways to proclaim Christ to the world. As the Church continued to develop new strategies, there was something missing, what St. John Paul II called the Church’s service “sacramentalized.”

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A deacon’s ministry can be summed up in three dimensions: Servant of the Word, Servant of the Eucharistic Mystery, and Servant of the Charity of Christ.

That is essentially the role of the diaconate.

Pope Paul VI in 1967 reestablished the order of the diaconate as a permanent rank, precisely because there was this indelible character — a mark of service that the Church herself founded on Christ and by Christ is the servant in all that she does.

This is played out even as a man continues to work toward being ordained a priest or, for a few, when he is ordained a bishop.

The bishop will wear a dalmatic – the vestment a deacon wears – underneath his chasuble.

Once a man is ordained a deacon, he always will be a deacon.

OK, so what does a deacon actually do?

The Church defines three main areas of service for the diaconate: ministry of the word, ministry of the liturgy, and ministry of charity.

Ministry of the Word: As Catholics, we believe that Christ Himself is the word of God and comes forth to proclaim the good news. The deacon is the herald of the Gospel, and you can see it at most Sunday Masses: the deacon is the one who proclaims the Gospel.

But it’s not just at Mass that deacons share the good news. A deacon is meant to proclaim the Gospel in every area of his life. All Christians are called to do the same, but deacons do it as part of the sacrament of holy orders.

“This is the sacrifice that’s being offered by the high priest, Christ himself, in the person of the priest, but it is also the ultimate act of service to the Father, and we see this sacramentalized in the person of the deacon.” — Deacon Eric Cooley, Associate Director, Saint Paul Seminary Institute for Diaconate Formation

Ministry of the liturgy: Besides reading the Gospel, a deacon’s assistance at Mass is perhaps the most visible sign of his ministry you’re used to seeing on a regular basis.

But permanent deacons also can baptize, witness marriages and preside at funeral services. In the United States, deacons often conduct word-and-communion services for the homebound or elderly.

“One of my favorite aspects of this is at the end of the Eucharistic Prayer where we have the doxology,” said Deacon Eric Cooley, associate director of The Saint Paul Seminary Institute for Diaconate Formation. “If there’s a deacon at Mass, he holds the chalice while the priest holds the host, as he says the doxology. And this is a beautiful example of how, yes, this is the service, or this is the sacrifice that’s being offered by the high priest, Christ himself, in the person of the priest, but it is also the ultimate act of service to the Father, and we see this sacramentalized in the person of the deacon.”

Ministry of charity: The Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith, but we’re not meant to stay inside the walls of the Church 24/7. The deacon says at the end of the liturgy to “go forth, the Mass has ended.”

Deacons go forth as a servant of Christ to bring charity to the world, each in his own unique way.

Some take part in prison ministry. Others visit the sick in hospitals. Others do different pastoral works within the community of the parish to which they’re assigned.

“This is why you see the deacon as the one that leads the Universal Prayer, gives the intercessions,” Cooley says. “He’s the one that says, ‘These are the needs of the community. Let’s bring them to the Lord.’ And so we see … this ministry of service through these three different ways.”

When greeting Catholic clergy or a member of a religious order, it’s not always apparent how to address them. Depending on the rank of the individual, there are specific forms of address that have been handed down over the centuries.

How do I address a Deacon?

In the Roman Catholic Church, there are two types of deacons: permanent deacons and transitional deacons. Here’s how to address them:

  1. Permanent Deacons:
    • Formal Address in Writing: Use “Deacon” followed by their full name (e.g., “Deacon John Smith”).
    • Conversation: Simply address them as “Deacon” followed by their last name (e.g., “Deacon Smith”).
  2. Transitional Deacons (those on their way to becoming priests):

Remember that the use of “the Reverend + Mr.” is less common in Canada & the United States.  So, whether permanent or transitional, addressing them as “Deacon” followed by their last name is a respectful and appropriate choice. 😊

    These forms of address are not intended to puff up Catholic clergy members, but are ways to express respect and honor to a person who has been given a particular role in the Church’s mission. It is a way to show good manners in a world that has generally neglected any sense of public decorum.

    At the same time, we shouldn’t be overly stressed out about addressing priests or bishops by their formal titles in all situations. There is a story of a young man at confirmation who accidentally called the bishop, “Father.” Instead of rebuking him, the bishop said to the boy, “Don’t worry, that’s the best title I have ever had.”

    WHEN YOU VISIT A PRIEST, PLEASE REMEMBER…

    I stumbled upon this online … there is a lot of truth in these words… DG

    That a priest isn’t married, nor will he have a family of his own.
    No wife, no children. His family is his parishioners.
    He is a spiritual father in faith to the community he serves.
    His future is in celebrating the Eucharist at mass every day, listening to confessions, anointing the sick, serving those who come to him for help.

    A priest may serve a parish only for a minimum of five to seven years.
    After that he may be transferred to another parish or assigned a different role in the Church. He relies on his team of volunteers, staff and the lay faithful.
    Don’t expect him to be there all the time for you.

    When you give money to the Church, you may be surprised to know that the money isn’t for him because no priest earns a fixed salary.
    They receive a stipend to meet their basic expenses of food, clothing and travel.
    They save every penny to go for a vacation and much of the money is gifted by friends, relatives and well wishers as they don’t get paid leave like the rest of us who work.
    While we work for a fixed amount of hours with two days off a week , priests are expected to be on stand by 24/7. So don’t be angry if they don’t respond to you when you need them. They are humans as well with the same frailty as us.

    If you hear anyone speaking badly about a particular priest, please correct that person and don’t engage in idle gossip without knowing the facts.
    Remember that they are alone and at times would need company.
    Pay attention to their emotional, physical and mental needs.
    Accompany them if needed or offer a helping hand or even a lift.

    It’s not easy to go out alone at 2 or 3 in the morning especially in dangerous neighborhoods for counseling or even anointing someone on their death bed.
    If someone comes to them at such an hour for help, they have to get up from their deep sleep and still be expected to celebrate Mass in the morning.
    Who is there for them when they are ill or have emergencies in the middle of the night? Yet they are required to perform their duties because if not them, who?

    Remember their birthdays, ordination anniversaries and important events in their lives. Celebrate with them, cry with them. Offer a shoulder to lean on. If they fall, don’t judge or criticize. Lift them up and help them on their journey in life. Don’t be offended if they don’t live up to your expectations. No priest is perfect.

    So take care of your priests, remember the ones who baptized, confirmed, married and anointed you. The ones who offer masses for your intentions and pray for you.
    May God bless our priests in Jesus name, our eternal High Priest.
    Amen.

    Being Face to Face

    A while back I set my homepage in my browser to the website Aleteia, this was to avoid being drawn down the mindless rabbit holes of clickbait and the rumor mills.
    This morning the headline that jumped out at me was:
    Pope: We were made to look in each other’s eyes, not at cell phones

    What a great realization:
    I makes me think of the word ‘reconciliation’ … which seems like a word that we have forgotten its meaning and importance.
    I read the latin breakdown of the word ‘reconciliation’
    Follow me on this:
    “Re” – implies ‘again’
    “con” – implies ‘together’
    “cilia” – is the word for ‘eyelash’
    “tion” – implies ‘action’
    Knowing this we can put together this statement that gives us the first step of reconciliation … The action of bringing your eyelash together again with another’s eyelash.
    To do this it means that you will need to come down to meet that person face to face.
    kind of gives another meaning the taking on the posture of Christ.

    Here is the link: https://aleteia.org/2022/12/15/pope-we-were-made-to-look-in-each-others-eyes-not-at-cell-phones/

    May the ‘Force’ be with you

    Back in 2007 as my refocus on my faith life was just starting, I was introduce to ‘the WORD among us’ monthly magazine that provides daily mediations and article for Catholics.
    I have kept up a yearly subscription most years since then and find that they have easy to navigate reflections that fit well with the everyday living that we all are faced with.

    May seems to be the month of the year that we are focused on discipleship, and the theme for this month is “Come, Follow Me … Walking the Narrow Path of Discipleship” .

    Today’s Gospel reading is from John 15:18-21, “If the world hates you, realize they hated me first… and we are asked the question in the reflection, “How can we imitate Jesus in returning hatred with love?

    Through prayer … ask the Holy Spirit to soften your heart so that you can love them with the love of your Saviour.
    “Holy Spirit, give me the grace to love even those who hate me.”

    We can be a force for unity in a divided world … and a divided family.
    Check out this months article titled: The “Sword” of Division, We can work for unity.
    https://wau.org/archives/article/the_sword_of_division/

    May the “Force” (of peace) be with you … and with your spirit.
    DG

    Your Story is Important…

    So often I listen to people lament about how their family just seem to not be interested in the faith, this appears to be the never ending narrative around the ‘Holy Water Cooler’.

    Some of the issue is that we stopped telling ‘our’ story, we stopped telling people about how God is working in our lives, stooped seeing Christ in other and stopped taking time to listen to the promptings of the Holy Spirit.
    We have traded the influence of the Most Holy Trinity for the influence of the secular trinity of time, text and television.

    We live in a World of Quiet Talk, in which no one needs to speak and no one needs to listen.

    We no longer witness,
    any desire to leave the safe place and to travel to the Father’s house that has many rooms, any hope to reach the promised land or see the one who is waiting for the prodigal son,
    any ambition to sit at the right or left side of the heavenly throne,
    it seems that staying quiet, staying home, staying in line, being in your little group or tribe has become life’s most important goal… but that is a vote for the status quo.

    Being a Christian leader means to lead other humans back to reconciliation, to see God face to face, to meet each other “Eyelash to Eyelash” (that is the meaning of ‘cili’).

    The basic affirmation is that humans are human and God is God.
    Without God, humans cannot be called human.

    DG

    Padre Pio – Pray for us

    Back in 2008, as I was a few years into my journey back to a refocused faith. I made Cursillo weekend, and I sat at the St. Padre Pio table. Since then I have read many books and reflected on the life of this great saint.
    Since the Fall, I have been reading, ‘ Pray, Hope, and Don’t Worry.” True Stories of Padre Pio Book 1 &2 by Diane Allen.

    The life & ministry of Padre Pio, his humility is a great inspiration for my own ministry and these prayers have found a place in my regular devotion and ministry.

    Padre Pio’s Example Prayer
    God our Father,
    By your Spirit you raised up St. Padre Pio,
    To show your people the way to perfection.
    You made him a pastor of the Church,
    To feed your sheep with his word,
    and to teach them by his example.
    Help us by his prayers to keep the faith he taught,
    and to follow the way of life he showed us.
    Grant this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
    Who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
    God, for ever and ever,
    Amen.

    As a Deacon, I am asked regularly to pray for people who are in need of healing. This could be due to illness, injury, or maybe going through a difficult time. In those moments I use this prayer, maybe in its entirety or only the portions that are most relevant.

    Padre Pio’s Healing Prayer

    Heavenly Father, I thank you for loving <N>.
    I thank you for sending your Son,
    Our Lord Jesus Christ,
    to the world to save and to set us free.

    We trust in your power and grace that sustain and restore them.
    Loving Father, touch them now with your healing hands,
    for we believe that your will is for <N> to be well in mind, body, soul and spirit.

    Cover <N> with the most precious blood of your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ from the top of their head to the soles of their feet.
    Cast anything that should not be in <N>.

    Root out any unhealthy and abnormal cells.
    Open any blocked arteries or veins and rebuild and replenish any damaged areas.

    Remove all inflammation and cleanse any infection by the power of Jesus’ precious blood.
    Let the fire of your healing love pass through their entire body
    to heal and make new any diseased areas so that their body will function the way you created it to function.

    Touch also their mind and their emotion, even the deepest recesses of their heart.

    Saturate their entire being with your presence, love, joy, and peace and draw them ever closer to you every moment of my life.

    And Father, fill <N> with your Holy Spirit and empower them to do your works so that their life will bring glory and honor to your holy name.
    We ask this in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.
    Amen.

    A Season of channeling Peace…

    A little more than a month, back at Blessed Sacrament Parish, it seems like September started in August.
    There is a natural cadence that is developed early in our lives because of the starting of the new school year, we are accustomed, or can I thrusted into a new routine after the lazy days of the summer. We hopefully enjoy some vacation or down time and then September starts like a race with the sound of starting pistol.

    Recently, I begin my days before the sunrise (which is getting easier every everyday) sitting in my ‘Prayer chair’ with a cup of coffee, Divine Office, rosary, daily readings, bible and a book of Pope Francis.

    Yes, you read this correctly…. a book of Pope Francis.

    Earlier this summer, after many years of waiting, we adding a statue of St. Francis of Assisi to our front garden. With that I began to immerse myself in the writings of St. Francis, Padre Pio and St. Brother Andre. I guess maybe in the search for Peace…. Biblical Peace.

    And there is was a prompting, a nudge to re-read Fratelli Tutti, the 2020 encyclical from Pope Francis.
    That’s it, I just did it … I made a conscience effort to ignore the “Twittbooktubernet” and dive into the writings of Pope Francis.

    Every Holy Mass, we pray in the Eucharistic Prayer, for Francis our Pope, all the clergy … it should be a sincere prayer not with fingers crossed or agenda in our hearts.

    In this time of fast paced instant communication of 80 characters or less, we have stopped listening and spend our time trying to grab all the information that is coming at us.

    In reading Pope Francis, and his vision for the church, and yes, he wants to change the church but I am not convinced that the narrative that is out there is 100% accurate of how he wants to change it.

    Pope Francis asks …
    “Are we a Church that calls and welcomes sinners with open arms, that gives courage and hope or are we a Church closed in on herself?”
    ” Are we a Church where the love of God dwells, where one cares for the other, where one prays for the other.” (From the Book, the Church of Mercy by Pope Francis, A Vision for the Church. 2014)

    DG

    Carpe Diem…

    Most of us are familiar with this phrase… Seize the day- Tomorrow we die.

    What a difference a day makes… yesterday we celebrated and today we have the Gospel passage from Matthew that sure wakes up anyone who has adopted a prosperity gospel ideal.

    “Anyone one who wishes to follow me, must deny himself and take up his cross…”

    The cross we are to take up is the mission of Christ… what we are to deny is our own will, or a mission of self.

    To have life and have it abundantly is to Love God and Love your Neighbour, the mission is to leave Peace.

    Start doing this today … for tomorrow we may not have the chance.

    Peace, DG

    Another year of Diaconate Ministry

    Yesterday, I celebrated my third year of ordination in the office of a Deacon… well, it really is more of a reflecting than celebrating.
    Shared a meal with the other men and their wives… which is always nice and true to the feast day and the season, it was a BBQ.

    I felt the prompting to reflect on the creed, at times we get caught up in tasks and forget the why.

    Well …. Here is the why….

    I believe in one God,
    the Father almighty,
    maker of heaven and earth,
    of all things visible and invisible.

    I believe in one Lord Jesus Christ,
    the Only Begotten Son of God,
    born of the Father before all ages.
    God from God, Light from Light,
    true God from true God,
    begotten, not made, consubstantial with the Father;
    through him all things were made.
    For us men and for our salvation
    he came down from heaven,
    and by the Holy Spirit was incarnate of the Virgin Mary,
    and became man.
    For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate,
    he suffered death and was buried,
    and rose again on the third day
    in accordance with the Scriptures.
    He ascended into heaven
    and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
    He will come again in glory
    to judge the living and the dead
    and his kingdom will have no end.

    I believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
    who proceeds from the Father and the Son,
    who with the Father and the Son is adored and glorified,
    who has spoken through the prophets.

    I believe in one, holy, catholic and apostolic Church.
    I confess one Baptism for the forgiveness of sins
    and I look forward to the resurrection of the dead
    and the life of the world to come. Amen


    Peace,

    DG